You're Gonna Miss Me When I Am Gone!

 🙏😢😌 YOU'RE GONNA MISS ME WHEN I AM GONE 😌😢🙏

Times have changed, and so have the minds and thought processes of people around you. In earlier days the Aging and the Aged were respected for their single word as it was their wisdom. Their word was more than worth its weight in Gold, because what they said were not mere words but they had lived through it. But today times have changed. Your words, and emotions don't matter for anyone. The world has become "Judgemental" to an extent that your very persona is just a mere "Nothing".

I myself have experienced this strongly in the last whole year. I know people will blame it on the Pandemic and the stress they are going through, because they do not have any other alibi. Personally I have always loved everyone and shared my emotions and concern for them openly without any Inhibitions. All I want is to be remembered the very thought of me makes them smile.

It's really sad that the world out there has gotten into a habit of covering up their shortcomings and deficiencies with statements and declarations that make you sound the defaulter, while they get away Scott free. Ironically even our Laws have been so lax and wanting change that even at a legal status you stand no chance to survive the onslaught of this Pseudo Characterization of people around you. It looks and sounds as if they are totally correct and you are the wrong doer.

For me personally I have turned over a new leaf. I've decided to "No more sit at tables , where I might be the topic of discussion when I get up"; sadly with a topic of ridicule rather than appreciation and respect. To each his own. Life comes and goes. We learn every minute not to shun it off as only another experience but to absorb it and imbibe it in our character and very self as something that will be look up with respect. How we look at the people who come into your life and what impact they have on your life is left to you. For people of substance it does not matter what others think of you or make of you, because they trust their integrity and beliefs.

As years roll by and you are seeing the Bright light at the end of the tunnel, its time to know that you have come to a stage where you rather be left to yourself and bask in the Glory of your own achievements, rather than make others think in your way, even it it may be the only way. It may make you feel sad and hurt that your words are not taken for the value they are due, or your thoughts do not match the fresh ones that are coming up in the new generation. But as mature adults who have come up to the Golden age it is better for us to lie low, and let wisdom take over.

I can only conclude with this image that says "Don't Stand At My Grave and Weep" - a Poem that says it all. 

A passing word for all younger generation - Take care of your parents and elders while they are alive. Understand and respect every word they say because it comes from their heart, and wisdom that has not come from learning from Books, but from the blood and sweat that had dripped into every letter of the words they express. Lest it be too late..... 

🥰 LOVE YOU ALL - GOD BLESS 🥰